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Virtual or Reality? Balance is key.

There is no doubt that Covid-19 has caused a lot of devastation and that its path of destruction is not over. However, there are many perks or positives that have also come out of Covid-19. When a global pandemic hits which interrupts all of our lives, I think we have to step back and ask God what is he up to. It’s not that God has caused the pandemic, but we must understand that he has certainly allowed it to happen.

I don’t like it when people lose their jobs, their teams, their life, but perhaps these are just the moments that God is calling one into a new career, a new path, a new course. Maybe we didn’t need the excess after all. It is very painful if you are say a baseball player at the University of Furman who was just told that your team’s program has been cut by your college. This represents a great case example in showing how Covid-19 is so much more than a medical issue. It’s an economic issue, a mental health issue, a political issue, a sports and entertainment issue, a business issue, a family issue, a church issue, a media issue, etc. The virus’s impact is far-reaching and its damage is mass.

In previous posts, I have already mentioned some of the bright sides of Covid-19. It’s great when families get to spend more time together, when sons and daughters learn the family trade, when young people learn how to sew, cook, garden, plant, and the list goes on. But, what about the church? What are the benefits of Covid-19 on church life as it relates to the next generation? Especially at a time when the next generation is told to stay at home and to stay away from church? If you have teenagers, you know what I am talking about. Teens don’t want to stay at home because they want to be out with their friends, whether that’s at church, school, or some other third place.

I can only speak from a digital point of view. Gen Z lives and breathes in a world of social media and technology. For far too long, the church has lagged behind in keeping up with, but more importantly reaching the next generation on their own turf. In other words, before Covid-19, many churches were irrelevant when it came to the next generation because they had no online presence and couldn’t communicate in the same way that the next generation communicates with one another. At the rate churches were going, most would have become obsolete.

But Covid-19, and I like to think God through this pandemic, has forced churches to catch up to the culture that surrounds it. It’s nearly impossible for the church to fulfill the mission God has given it if it cannot communicate, much less make sense to the community and culture they are trying to reach. Missionaries have to speak the natives’ language and in the church’s case, as it relates to the next generation and the world at large, the church has to be able to speak the digital natives’ language. A famous ministry leader has recently quipped that he believes churches will soon be saying, “we’re an online church with physical and local locations.”

Do you see what this ministry leader is really saying? He is putting the virtual before the real. Not that virtual isn’t real. Virtual is very real to the next generation and in this context, is probably more real than that which appears to be a physical church building. None the less, I am not a fan of this statement and not because the statement doesn’t contain some truth. Let me explain. I don’t think we have to argue which comes first. It’s like the chicken and egg argument. Does it really matter? When you’re ministering to the world as you have been called to in the Great Commission, ministering in-person and online are both vital.

This is similar to asking if the church is to be primarily ministering locally or globally. The answer is Yes. The church is to be ministering glocally! Virtual reality is real and the point of this post is simply to state that I believe God has used the pandemic to help the universal Church “get it.” Real is real and virtual is real. There is no need to debate which should come first. In fact, on the flip side, Covid-19 has helped the next generation learn much about the real world, and how it is a world that doesn’t just operate solely in a virtual reality. For example, manual labor and blue-collar jobs are just as important to society as office work and white-collar jobs. It takes everyone to make this world go around!

Let’s be honest. For too long, I think we Americans have had too much. Too many choices, too many options, too many . . . analysis by paralysis – – – leading us to make no decision because of the dizzying array of colors and flavors constantly at our disposal. I am grateful for these luxuries, but are they all needed? I like to call these extra add-on’s unnecessary fluff. What does this mean for the church? Like sport programs or even certain jobs that are being cut, perhaps there are some ministry programs that need to die. They’re just no longer effective in a post COVID-19 world.

I must give props to Dr. James Emery White of Mecklenburg Community Church in Charlotte, NC. In a pre COVID-19 world, this pastor was already beefing up his online campus (and I don’t mean church website). He was already using online pastors, social media and tech gurus that speak the digital language of the next generation. It is at this point that I must admit that there many aspects of the old normal that I prefer to the new normal. I prefer packed out stadiums, arenas, restaurants, malls, and churches to that of the same kind that are hybrid or half-filled. I prefer not having to wear a mask or social distance. I prefer a handshake or a hug to that of staying six feet away to the next closest person. But I’m learning to put my preferences aside, to do whatever it takes to reach the next generation, and to balance my life by getting in tune with God’s bigger picture. What is God teaching you during these unprecedented times?

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Dreams do and don’t come true

Life seems to be made up of dreamers and of realists. Many a dreamer has had the thought of becoming a millionaire but instead lived their life in debt. Many a realist has concluded they will never become a millionaire and thus wasted assets that might have led them to be just that. There is a middle ground. There are more options in life than becoming either a dreamer or a realist. Though it is important to dream, it is also important to be realistic about your dream.

About a year ago, I received a letter in my mailbox that made my heart jump in excitement. The newsletter came from friend and evangelist Craig Church. I had never met Craig, but in 2010, I stepped out in faith to bring Craig in to lead a three-day youth revival at my church. Every night, we saw more teens coming to the Lord than the night before! Back to the letter . . . anyone who knows Craig knows he has a daughter named Leah who loves basketball. Leah has been a national free throw champion, world-record three point shooter, and an individual who works tirelessly at her sport.

Before I continue, I need to say Leah’s dream was mine. Few can match my passion and love for the game of basketball. When October rolls around, most people think of Halloween and of orange pumpkins. Not me . . . I think of midnight madness and orange basketballs! The end of October always marks the beginning of basketball season!

So what was it that Craig wrote that made me jump up like I was grabbing a rebound coming off the glass? He wrote that 2017 would be the 10th year of Craig Church Ministries (CCM), his 25th year of marriage, and the year that his daughter Leah would begin playing college basketball for the University of North Carolina Tar Heels!

Anyone who knows basketball knows that UNC has produced some of the greatest basketball players of all-time, including Michael Jeffrey Jordan. Playing in the Dean Smith Center night in and night out would be akin to walking down Hollywood’s star walk of fame. Many of the jerseys hanging from the rafters are household names around the world.

You may wonder what Leah had to say in the letter? She said, “My early love of UNC is initially what made me fall in love with the game of basketball. For this desire and dream to come true and seeing all the hard work pay off is humbling. All the glory goes to Jesus! “Delight thyself also in the LORD: and he shall give thee the desires of thine heart.” (Psalm 37:4) GO TAR HEELS!”

Dreams do come true, but often not without a lot of time (everything can’t be instant), hard work and sacrifice. For every dreamer who sees his or her wish come true, there are countless others who worked just as hard only to see their dream come crashing down on their head. That’s the moment when reality comes knocking at the front door.

Perhaps you have dreamed of having a large next generation ministry or you have students that dream of becoming famous actors, musicians, or athletes. That’s good – there’s nothing wrong with dreaming! Some dreams do come true! But for those next generation leaders who don’t enlist, invest in, and train other leaders, I doubt your ministry will ever become what you dream about. For those students who don’t practice their theatrics, music, or sport, I doubt you will ever be famous. It’s important for us to sit down with the next generation and first hear out their dreams. Maybe they want to be the next You Tube star gone viral. That’s great! But then we need to talk about statistics and reality and the importance of having a back-up plan.

Another friend of mine, Coach Mark Miller had a dream to start a basketball academy in Raleigh, NC. Like Leah, his dream also came true! I still remember going from school-to-school and store-to-store passing out brochures to help my friend get his new business off the ground and running. It is important that we take time to tell the next generation that they can’t get anywhere by themselves. Though they have an iphone (emphasis on the “i”) and a dream, they still need friends, guides, teachers, and coaches who will mentor them face-to-face. In other words, dreams do come true, but often not without the help of others. Remind yourself and your students that you are to do everything for the glory of God (I Cor 10:31).

I hope all your dreams and wishes come true, but if they don’t, know God has something better in store for you (Jer 29:11)!